Everybody knows men and women are different from each other. This is the reason why both sexes don’t understand the other; it seems like they have a distinct language that is only known among their own kind. Even in a highly modernized society like ours, men and women remain disconcerted about the opposite sex. For all the men out there who wants to make their relationship with their women slightly easier than usual, here are 5 sure fire ways to make you relate to your girlfriends or wives.

1. Listen

See, it’s as simple as that! Listening is something men are not known to do, yet it is this task that makes all the difference in the world when it comes to their relationship with women. If your girlfriend or wife speaks, regardless of the topic, keep an open ear. But don’t just hear, listen! This is most important when she is talking about important matters.

2. Love her the way you want to be loved

Actions are more persuasive than words ever will. Women won’t know the way you want to be loved if you don’t show them. Why don’t you demonstrate? Through your behavior, convey the message you want her to know.

3. Open up

Men aren’t like women: they are less willing to share their feelings. However, men should know that if they want women to open up to them, they should open up themselves. You should try to tell your special lady about your goals, dreams and fears.

4. Do inspiring things

Men should know that happiness is infectious; if you’re happy, somehow you make other people happy too. Do activities that inspire and motivate you, even if your girlfriend doesn’t enjoy them. Your joy will be evident, and could soon you’d bring joy to her too. Women will be inspired with what they see, and they might even try the activities out for themselves!

5. Don’t change for someone else

Most women think that all men need to be “fixed”—that is, people who should be made over and changed to what they perceive is better. Men shouldn’t allow themselves to be “fixed” if they are happy with what they are. If you’re content with yourself, show her that. Don’t be swayed by her intentions. If men show women they are okay with who they are and what they have, the latter will soon give them space.