Sometimes, men mess up when it comes to dating women. This is unfortunate because dates, particularly the first one, are the only opportunity for men to make an impression good enough to give them a chance at a relationship with the female they like. If you are a guy who regularly fumbles in your dates, check out the list of dating mistakes to avoid below.

1. Being a showoff (especially with money)

You can turn the ladies off if you are boastful. While women are interested in the occupation of the men they date, they don’t want excessive proof of the income derived from the job. When it comes to dating women, flashing money around is a bad idea. Doing so will only make women feel like they are being bought.

2. Talking about exes and past relationships

This is a major mistake, specially when it’s done on the first date. Speaking about the “ones that got away” will only make your date think that you haven’t moved on from your failed relationships. This will immediately make her lose interest; after all, the reason she is dating is because she wants to find someone who has room for her in his life. When dating women, it’s best to hold back on your dating history…atleast for the meantime.

3. Acknowledging other women in the room

When dating women, focus your attention to the girl you are with. If you’re dating in a restaurant or coffee shop, don’t stare at other women in the room. Also, don’t comment on their appearance! If you do, don’t expect the date to end well.

4. Keeping your hobbies/interests a secret

In the first date, be honest to her about your hobbies and interests. Don’t hide what you like just to present yourself as cooler or less geeky than you really are. If you are a Star Wars fanatic, say so. It’s better for your date to know this from the very beginning. Being truthful pays when it comes to dating women.

You wouldn’t want to lose a lady before you even get to know her, right? So remember these mistakes and try not to commit them when dating women.